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Turn Your Vision into Reality – Building a Foundation

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The Wellcoaches’ Behavior Change Pyramid serves as a guiding light for individuals embarking on the journey of health behavior change. Each block represents a crucial aspect of this transformative process, emphasizing the importance of establishing a sturdy foundation to ensure lasting success.

The bottom of the pyramid is the foundation of your wellness vision. What would your best state of health and wellness look like? Paint a picture of how you would look and feel. What activities would you be engaged in? What do you want more of in your life? Joy, love, hope, confidence? This vision serves as a compass, guiding your actions toward alignment with your deepest desires and aspirations.

Central to this foundation are your values and strengths. Reflect on what truly matters to you and how your inherent qualities can propel you toward your health goals. Integrating these strengths into your journey enhances resilience and fosters sustainable change, whether it’s integrity, compassion, or curiosity. If you are having a hard time identifying your personal values and strengths, think about what makes you a good employee or a good parent. Make a list of the attributes that make you successful at work or at home.

What obstacles have you experienced in the past? Moving past obstacles can involve taking a new path, looking at your challenges through the lens of your strengths, shedding self-limiting beliefs, and developing a more flexible mindset.

Identifying past obstacles provides invaluable insight into potential roadblocks ahead. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, leveraging your strengths to navigate unfamiliar terrain and dispel self-limiting beliefs. When feeling critical of yourself, are you being fair to yourself? Do you hold yourself to unrealistic standards? We tend to talk to ourselves in a way that we would never talk to a friend. Cultivating a flexible mindset empowers you to adapt and thrive amidst adversity.

What resources and supports do you have to help you move forward? Do you have a friend or a family member you can share your goals with? Have you thought of hiring a coach or a trainer to hold you accountable and guide you through any bumps in the road?

Whatever your goals, build a strong foundation consisting of your values, motivators, support, challenges, and strategies for success. Your foundation will support your vision and goals and serve as a positive place to return to if you are struggling.

Building a wellness vision is a crucial step in setting the foundation for sustainable health behavior change. It involves creating a detailed and inspiring picture of what you want your future health and well-being to look like. Here are practical steps to help you get started:

  1. Reflect on Your Ideal State:
    • Self-Reflection: Take a moment to consider what being in your best health would look and feel like. Imagine yourself vibrant, energetic, and fully engaged in life. What are you doing differently? How does it feel physically and emotionally?
    • Visualization: Use visualization techniques to see yourself in this ideal state. Picture yourself achieving your health goals, participating in activities you enjoy, and experiencing a high quality of life.
  2. Identify Core Values:
    • List Your Values: Consider what values are most important to you. Values might include health, community, family, integrity, or creativity.
    • Align Values with Health Goals: Consider how these values can be reflected in your health behaviors. For example, if family is a key value, your wellness vision might include activities that enhance family bonding and health.
  3. Define What You Want More Of:
    • Desired Qualities: Identify emotions or qualities you want to increase in your life such as joy, resilience, confidence, or peace.
    • Incorporate Into Daily Life: Think about ways to incorporate these qualities into your health journey. For instance, if you desire more joy, include fun and enjoyable physical activities in your wellness plan.
  4. Acknowledge Strengths and Skills:
    • Personal Strengths: Make a list of your personal strengths, such as kindness, determination, or adaptability.
    • Utilize Strengths: Plan how you can use these strengths to overcome past challenges or to meet your health goals.
  5. Set Specific Goals:
    • SMART Goals: Use the SMART criteria (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) to set clear and actionable goals that support your wellness vision.
    • Short and Long-Term Goals: Include both immediate and long-term goals to maintain motivation and track progress.
  6. Create a Support Plan:
    • Identify Support Systems: Think about who in your life can support you in this journey, whether it’s family, friends, a FaceBook group, or professionals such as health coaches or trainers.
    • Engagement: Plan how to regularly engage with your support network to keep you accountable and encouraged.
  7. Write It Down:
    • Document Your Vision: Write down your wellness vision and the steps you plan to take to achieve it. This document will serve as a reminder and motivator.
    • Review and Adjust: Periodically review your vision and goals, making adjustments as needed to reflect any changes in your circumstances or insights.

By following these steps, you create a comprehensive and motivating wellness vision that guides your health behavior change efforts. This vision becomes the foundation upon which you can build lasting changes, contributing to your overall quality of life and well-being.

Elizabeth Schenk, an impassioned health coach, fitness expert, and seasoned training and development specialist, is renowned for her expertise in equipping fitness and wellness professionals to cater to the unique needs of older adults. Her mission extends beyond mere instruction; she is committed to empowering her clients to foster a proactive approach to health and navigate life transitions. Under her guidance, a multitude of individuals have embarked on profound transformations, embracing enduring wellness and vitality.


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For Long Term Success, The Joy of Living Trumps the Fear of Disease

A diagnosis or threat of disease motivates many to start a wellness program, but is often not enough to keep people going.  For example, tobacco users are well aware of the long term consequences of tobacco use such as lung cancer and emphysema but it is not enough to motivate certain individuals to quit. So what does work? Connecting people with their values, strong motivators and purpose has a much more powerful impact.

A former client of mine who was a smoker lost a grandmother to lung cancer yet this was not a motivator for her to quit. Protecting her own health was not a motivator either. As we continued to explore reasons to quit smoking she said having a child of her own would motivate her to quit.

Another former client who was obese with various health risks tried diet after diet with no lasting success. When she connected her health to her faith and helping others in her community it was life changing. She now supports members of her church who want to lose weight by holding a weekly support group. By helping others she has been able to help herself.

The initial shock of a diagnosis of any disease is enough to shake us up into behavior change but what is going to keep you going? This will take a little digging, thinking and soul searching but it is worth it. Finding your purpose to be well is extremely powerful.

To start you can ask yourself what are your motivators? Why do you want to do this? No superficial answers like I want to look good and feel better. Don’t we all? What does it mean to be healthy? What will you be able to do if you are fit and full of energy? How will staying healthy help your family? What will you be able to do if you are in good health? Go on that trip to Thailand you have been thinking about? Plant a garden?  Play with your grand-kids?  Often you will find the fear of the disease is not as motivating as the joy of possibilities!

 


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The Connection between Sleep and Your Waistline

More and more informationsleep 1n is being discovered about the importance of getting 7-8 hours of quality sleep each night. In terms of weight loss, a lack of sleep affects our ability to lose weight by interfering with the hormonal processes that take place while you sleep.

The two hormones that are key in this process are ghrelin and leptin.  Leptin is the hormone that tells you to stop eating, and when you are sleep deprived, your body makes less leptin. Ghrelin is the  hormone that tells you when to eat. When you are sleep-deprived, your body makes more ghrelin. The result? Your body is telling you to eat more and your body is not telling you when to stop. In other words more ghrelin + less leptin = weight gain.

Keep a sleep log to see if you are getting 7-8 hours of sleep a night. If you are not, make a list of the barriers that prevent you from getting 7-8 hours of sleep.  Are your barriers to quality sleep things that you have the ability to change? If so, what can you do differently to get your ZZZ’s?


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Progress not Perfection

The drive to be perfect often flows over into exercise and diet. We are bombarded by the media telling us how we should look, what we should eat, what new exercise will give us the perfect backside, what new diet will melt the fat away, you get the picture!  Not to mention your Facebook friend that has 5 kids, just ran a marathon, is getting her PhD in astrophysics and just won 10 grand on her fabulous vacation in Vegas. Darn her!

1013272_596120620439064_93867641_nLooking at these images, negative self-talk rears it’s ugly head and guilt sets in. “I was so bad today”, “I ate like a pig, I am going to have to eat celery sticks for the next week”, “I shouldn’t have ate so much ice cream, I am going to have to work out for 2 hours tonight!”.  Sound familiar? In the endless pursuit of the magic diet and exercise program we often find ourselves swinging from one extreme to another, back and forth, back and forth. Self-compassion goes out the window and the more we try the worse we feel.

There is nothing wrong with striving to be your best but not at the expense of your self-worth. It is easy to get trapped in the notion that we have be the “ideal” only to be disappointed when we don’t achieve the unrealistic goals we set for ourselves.  Repeat this vicious cycle again and again and it erodes our self-confidence.

Rather than trying to be perfect all the time, strive to do your best in each moment. Your best one day might be squeezing in a 15 minute walk in-between meetings and your best on another may be going to the gym for 45 minutes. And if you are unable to meet your exercise goals one day accept that wellness is not all or nothing and pick up where you left off. Tomorrow is a new day. When you get rid of the drive for perfectionism, you can move to a place where challenges are now opportunities for growth. Focus on progress rather than perfection and ditch the all or nothing mentality.

Learn to do things that work for you rather than what the so called “experts” say.  Become the expert on you. After all who knows you better?

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