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Turn Your Vision into Reality – Building a Foundation

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The Wellcoaches’ Behavior Change Pyramid serves as a guiding light for individuals embarking on the journey of health behavior change. Each block represents a crucial aspect of this transformative process, emphasizing the importance of establishing a sturdy foundation to ensure lasting success.

The bottom of the pyramid is the foundation of your wellness vision. What would your best state of health and wellness look like? Paint a picture of how you would look and feel. What activities would you be engaged in? What do you want more of in your life? Joy, love, hope, confidence? This vision serves as a compass, guiding your actions toward alignment with your deepest desires and aspirations.

Central to this foundation are your values and strengths. Reflect on what truly matters to you and how your inherent qualities can propel you toward your health goals. Integrating these strengths into your journey enhances resilience and fosters sustainable change, whether it’s integrity, compassion, or curiosity. If you are having a hard time identifying your personal values and strengths, think about what makes you a good employee or a good parent. Make a list of the attributes that make you successful at work or at home.

What obstacles have you experienced in the past? Moving past obstacles can involve taking a new path, looking at your challenges through the lens of your strengths, shedding self-limiting beliefs, and developing a more flexible mindset.

Identifying past obstacles provides invaluable insight into potential roadblocks ahead. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, leveraging your strengths to navigate unfamiliar terrain and dispel self-limiting beliefs. When feeling critical of yourself, are you being fair to yourself? Do you hold yourself to unrealistic standards? We tend to talk to ourselves in a way that we would never talk to a friend. Cultivating a flexible mindset empowers you to adapt and thrive amidst adversity.

What resources and supports do you have to help you move forward? Do you have a friend or a family member you can share your goals with? Have you thought of hiring a coach or a trainer to hold you accountable and guide you through any bumps in the road?

Whatever your goals, build a strong foundation consisting of your values, motivators, support, challenges, and strategies for success. Your foundation will support your vision and goals and serve as a positive place to return to if you are struggling.

Building a wellness vision is a crucial step in setting the foundation for sustainable health behavior change. It involves creating a detailed and inspiring picture of what you want your future health and well-being to look like. Here are practical steps to help you get started:

  1. Reflect on Your Ideal State:
    • Self-Reflection: Take a moment to consider what being in your best health would look and feel like. Imagine yourself vibrant, energetic, and fully engaged in life. What are you doing differently? How does it feel physically and emotionally?
    • Visualization: Use visualization techniques to see yourself in this ideal state. Picture yourself achieving your health goals, participating in activities you enjoy, and experiencing a high quality of life.
  2. Identify Core Values:
    • List Your Values: Consider what values are most important to you. Values might include health, community, family, integrity, or creativity.
    • Align Values with Health Goals: Consider how these values can be reflected in your health behaviors. For example, if family is a key value, your wellness vision might include activities that enhance family bonding and health.
  3. Define What You Want More Of:
    • Desired Qualities: Identify emotions or qualities you want to increase in your life such as joy, resilience, confidence, or peace.
    • Incorporate Into Daily Life: Think about ways to incorporate these qualities into your health journey. For instance, if you desire more joy, include fun and enjoyable physical activities in your wellness plan.
  4. Acknowledge Strengths and Skills:
    • Personal Strengths: Make a list of your personal strengths, such as kindness, determination, or adaptability.
    • Utilize Strengths: Plan how you can use these strengths to overcome past challenges or to meet your health goals.
  5. Set Specific Goals:
    • SMART Goals: Use the SMART criteria (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) to set clear and actionable goals that support your wellness vision.
    • Short and Long-Term Goals: Include both immediate and long-term goals to maintain motivation and track progress.
  6. Create a Support Plan:
    • Identify Support Systems: Think about who in your life can support you in this journey, whether it’s family, friends, a FaceBook group, or professionals such as health coaches or trainers.
    • Engagement: Plan how to regularly engage with your support network to keep you accountable and encouraged.
  7. Write It Down:
    • Document Your Vision: Write down your wellness vision and the steps you plan to take to achieve it. This document will serve as a reminder and motivator.
    • Review and Adjust: Periodically review your vision and goals, making adjustments as needed to reflect any changes in your circumstances or insights.

By following these steps, you create a comprehensive and motivating wellness vision that guides your health behavior change efforts. This vision becomes the foundation upon which you can build lasting changes, contributing to your overall quality of life and well-being.

Elizabeth Schenk, an impassioned health coach, fitness expert, and seasoned training and development specialist, is renowned for her expertise in equipping fitness and wellness professionals to cater to the unique needs of older adults. Her mission extends beyond mere instruction; she is committed to empowering her clients to foster a proactive approach to health and navigate life transitions. Under her guidance, a multitude of individuals have embarked on profound transformations, embracing enduring wellness and vitality.


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For Long Term Success, The Joy of Living Trumps the Fear of Disease

A diagnosis or threat of disease motivates many to start a wellness program, but is often not enough to keep people going.  For example, tobacco users are well aware of the long term consequences of tobacco use such as lung cancer and emphysema but it is not enough to motivate certain individuals to quit. So what does work? Connecting people with their values, strong motivators and purpose has a much more powerful impact.

A former client of mine who was a smoker lost a grandmother to lung cancer yet this was not a motivator for her to quit. Protecting her own health was not a motivator either. As we continued to explore reasons to quit smoking she said having a child of her own would motivate her to quit.

Another former client who was obese with various health risks tried diet after diet with no lasting success. When she connected her health to her faith and helping others in her community it was life changing. She now supports members of her church who want to lose weight by holding a weekly support group. By helping others she has been able to help herself.

The initial shock of a diagnosis of any disease is enough to shake us up into behavior change but what is going to keep you going? This will take a little digging, thinking and soul searching but it is worth it. Finding your purpose to be well is extremely powerful.

To start you can ask yourself what are your motivators? Why do you want to do this? No superficial answers like I want to look good and feel better. Don’t we all? What does it mean to be healthy? What will you be able to do if you are fit and full of energy? How will staying healthy help your family? What will you be able to do if you are in good health? Go on that trip to Thailand you have been thinking about? Plant a garden?  Play with your grand-kids?  Often you will find the fear of the disease is not as motivating as the joy of possibilities!

 


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Goal Achieving Part 2 – Your Personal Mission Statement

When I start a coaching session with a new client, we start by creating a wellness vision. The process involves creating a clear picture of how you see yourself at your best state of well-being.  In order to know what we truly want in our lives, we need to get a clear picture of what that is. You wouldn’t start a business without a business plan would you? Well, you could but having a plan will certainly increase your chances for success. Think of the values and purpose part of your wellness vision as your personal mission statement.  In the business world, a mission statement is defined as a company’s “statement of purpose” or “why the company exists”. It is part of building the foundation of the business. When big decisions are made, the company’s mission (usually!) is kept in the forefront.

Now think about creating your own personal mission statement. Your personal mission statement should define your purpose, what you value, who you are, and how you want to live. You can have a blanket mission statement for your life or a mission statement for different areas of your well-being. The main areas of well-being are:

  • Career well-being
  • Financial well-being
  • Physical well-being
  • Community/social well-being
  • Family well-being

To help create your personal mission statement, a good place to start is by asking yourself some questions:

  • What have I done well in the past in this area of well-being?
  • If I was at my best with regards to this are of well-being, what would this look like?
  • What are my core values when it comes to this area of well-being?
  • What is most important to me?
  • If I were living this area of well-being with purpose, what would that look like?

Take your time and write down anything that comes to mind. There are no rules on how your personal mission statement needs to be written or how long it needs to be. After all, it is you mission statement.  It should come from you, not from another person’s idea of who you should be.

Keep in mind, your mission may change over time as your life evolves. It is helpful to review and revise your personal mission statement often. If you use your personal mission statement to guide your goals, you are more likely to set meaningful goals and your life will be a reflection of your purpose and core values.